Even for those of us who love to write, who were born to write…writing is a choice. A daily choice that really just boils down to doing it.
But real life is messy and busy and a thousand other things. Some people may have the luxury of eight solid hours every day with nothing to do but write. But that’s not most of us.
Most of us have full-time jobs.
Most of us have other responsibilities.
Most of us have another life.
In less than a month I am due with my first baby. A little boy. My husband and I are thrilled! Being a wife and a mother will be my full-time job, my responsibility and my “other” life.
I still love to write and I know I was born to write. That won’t change. But how I fit writing into my life will. That’s just reality.
Here’s a simple technique that’s been working for me: I write for 30 minutes before I get out of bed in the morning. That’s it. Nothing super fancy. Just 30 minutes before the rush of the day begins.
I get more writing accomplished in those 30, focused minutes than I ever thought possible.
I make daily, consistent progress on my writing goals.
I feel so accomplished when I’m finished – like I’m on top of the world and the day can throw whatever it wants at me.
Because I did what I love and what I was born to do. That’s writing in real life for me. I don’t have hours upon hours to devote to my craft. BUT I do have a consistent block of focused time each day. My technique may need to be tweaked a little once the baby comes, but the concept will stay the same.
Setting aside time to write can be difficult, but it really is about finding a rhythm (just like anything else). For me, I seem to struggle with finding topics to write about, topics that are exciting enough. I’m not quite sure I have found my rhythm yet, but I’m sure I will in time.
Absolutely! Writing topics are definitely a challenge, especially when it comes to blogging. I’m learning that taking from real life is best. People want to be able to relate to you personally. Best of luck with your writing!
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